It’s All in How You Look At It

Like I always do, I re-read my last post several times. Partly because I like the way it turned out and partly because the point I made about fully realizing a goal is still relevant (and will be until I fully realize that goal).

Which got me thinking…

A Different Perspective

What if I adopted a different view of all this moving/running/traveling/ adventuring I’ve done the last 35 years? I’ve often complained (to myself and a professional ear) about not finding a ‘home’ – a place where I can put down roots and connect to the people and place. After reading the last post one more time, something dawned on me. Maybe I’ve spent too much time believing that each move was going to be temporary because, well, they have been. And maybe that’s on me for seeing them only that way.

Note: Another aspect is that, over the decades, I have seen more renters (including me) forced into transient lifestyles because of rent increases based on variable ‘market values,’ thereby creating the very instability we’re trying so hard to avoid. Rarely does one rent a place with the expectation of staying long-term, like 10-15 years, anymore. And I realized that is exactly what I’m seeking. Not permanence (no such thing), but S-T-A-B-I-L-I-T-Y.

What if…I decided to view a move to a new place as something that could be stable if I allowed it? By allow, I mean inject some level of stability into the new place? I’ve had a habit of buying used or cheap furniture, figuring why invest in nice things to make a home when I’ll just be packing it up in 12 months anyway. Then it dawned on me: what a negative way to approach a new opportunity to create something.

Now, It Comes To Me…Slowly

At some point after the opportunity to come home opened up, I decided on a different approach. I bought new furniture for this new place because I wanted new. I’m tired of buying someone else’s energy (couches and beds can hold a lot of positive and negative energies). I decided that I wanted pieces that reflect me and my home. Yesterday, I surveyed my new surroundings and took a few moments to take it all in. I realized that my ‘temporary’ mentality had manifested as exactly that with every move over the better part of the last three decades.

Aha…

Change is Good, Right?

Then I began thinking, what if I make a conscious decision to invest in some sense of a stable life? What if I approached this relocation to my new (old) home as a process of bringing some level of permanence (i.e., settling in to a place and making it a home) to my up-till-now gypsy lifestyle? I’m tired of the move-relocate-move-then-repeat cycle. It’s exhausting.

Our attitude, how we perceive situations, problems, even life, can change our behavior if we choose to see it from a different angle. I’m not sure how effective this approach will be for me, but I’m at least willing to give it a try. Are you?

#author #amwriting #life #attitude #positiveattitude #changeisgood #thewritinglife #mestengobooks #travel #adventure #transience #powerofpositivethinking

The Descent After the Goal

It’s Sunday morning – okay, by now it’s late Sunday morning, because I’ve been reading the paper, doing one of the word puzzles, drinking my tea and basically taking my time and enjoying my Sunday morning. On a whim, I decided to check my I Ching reading for the day (on ifate.com, in case you’re interested, because it’s FREE). It’s an interesting read, to say the least.

The Goal Achieved?

I recently (and finally) relocated back home. I got the he** out of California and don’t miss it at all, especially since wildfire season is in full swing. I do miss the Meyer lemons, though. Imagine a lemon sweet enough to suck on and delicious enough to make the best lemony desserts. (Note: it was mated with a mandarin back in the late 1800s by a man from China; some guy named Fred Meyer then brought it to the U.S.)

But I digress…

It was a rocky relocation and I’m being kind when I say that. For example, the moving company somehow managed to not pack a single stitch of my clothing or any of my bedding into the UBox that was shipped 3,500 miles to my new (old) home. That and some other challenges have taken up much of the last 5-6 weeks to resolve (me and my clothes have since been re-united) and my stress level has been way too high for way too long. Hence this long, quiet, and relaxing Sunday morning…I need it.

Sometimes the hexagram readings are spot-on with what’s currently happening. Other times, you have to really think about how it relates to your life currently or in the near future. Today, it was spot-on and it opened my eyes, especially the last two paragraphs. Talk about prophetic…

Going Up

“The situation represented by this reading can be compared to taking a lengthy trek over a high mountain. At some point before reaching the peak, you can see—in detail—exactly how much farther you have to travel. You will have a good idea of what it will take to reach the top, because of the climbing experience you’ve accumulated thus far. However, when you do reach the peak (which has been in sight for quite a long period of sustained effort), you will have done only that. You will have reached the top and achieved your initial goal, but you still must descend the other side. This last critical segment is what remains before completion.”

~ From Divination.com by the Divination Foundation

With all the planning I did while still in CA (emails, phone calls, security deposit that got delayed, etc.), I could finally see that goal – I was going home. But it was all I could see. Or would see, to be truthful. I was obsessed with getting to the top, reaching what I thought was the whole goal. I was wrong…

Then Down

After a few minutes of contemplation, this came to me: I’m finally here. I’ve reached the pinnacle of the mountain (the goal to come home). But now I must go down the other side to complete this journey. Going down is usually much easier, though there may still be challenges along the way.

The second paragraph struck me in a way that opened my eyes to a long pattern of only keeping my eye on the pinnacle, the goal at the top/end, and not the whole journey, which includes going down the other side of the mountain to complete the goal/cycle (I added the bold and italics):

“Consider, too, the possibility that you have little information and no experience of what it’s like descending the other side of the mountain, because all your attention has been focused on the path going up. The coming situation may seem very strange to you—unlike anything that you have experienced before—but the other side of the mountain is where the true mysteries reside. Proceed carefully, cautiously, and alertly; and you will arrive honorably at the completion of your goal.”

~ From Divination.com by the Divination Foundation

Revelation (of Something Missed)

OMG. You mean there’s more?

Of course there is. What goes up, must come down, remember? All these years I’ve only been focused on a part of the goal, thinking it was the whole goal the whole time. How wrong I was.

Getting here was only a part of the goal, not a completion of the goal. Now that I think about it, it makes sense. I still have work to do. I’m home and yet I’m not – not yet, anyway. I’m at a stopping-off place along the way, along the journey to my goal of coming home. I’m close but I’m not yet finished. The goal is not complete. But it will be, because now I know to watch my step as I climb down from the top of that mountain and into my new (old) life here at home.

Safe travels to all who dare that climb up. Don’t forget to climb down!

#mestengobooks #reading #awakening #reachinggoals #home #life #writeroninstagram #travel #adventure #risktaking #divination #iching #contemplation #settinggoals #journey

Getting All Your Ducks in a Row

Missing In Action…

I haven’t written much since early 2024. I’m not sure if I’m losing the desire to write. Maybe I haven’t had anything in particular to post that I haven’t already posted. I only know I’ve had little desire to write, to express, which as a creative, is highly unusual (and unhealthy, if you ask me). With nine years of posts, you still have plenty to catch up on and learn.

Life threw me a big curveball early last year (story of my life) and I’ve had to make adjustments. Life is like that, sometimes. Best to go with the flow to avoid over-stressing the system. Change is the one constant, remember? Going with the flow, accepting what is, even if we don’t like it at first, is crucial to getting through the chaos to the calm (which always follows chaos, it’s the natural flow of things).

One by One…

Once the calm has arrived, you can once again set achievable goals (I prefer the small ones, they’re easier to reach and maintain) so you feel like you’re moving forward, until the next round of chaos (read: change) sets in, as it always does. I have found that taking those small, steady movements (short-term, doable goals) toward the completion of a larger goal (e.g., going home) keeps up the momentum. I feel like I’m accomplishing something as opposed to doing nothing and waiting it all out. That never works, as I found out the hard way last year.

It has become more important these days that I get all my ducks in a row. I think it has more to do with age than anything else. Turns out, I like some semblance of order, some predictability to my life, since most of my adventuring days are behind me. Getting my ducks in a row has been an overriding theme for the last four years as I continue the struggle to find a way out of California and make for HOME.

It started with replacing broken down cardboard book boxes (ruined by moisture, cold, humidity) in storage, crushed by the weight of other heavy book boxes. Every weekend, I buy one or two file containers (they’re a good size that I can lift without hurting my back) and put my books in new containers. And they stack one on top of the other easily, so now I have a nice pile of clear boxes and can find a book if needed. Small goal turned into a big accomplishment. And then…

It Only Takes One Duck to Get the Ball Rolling…

…Duck #1 came to me a few weeks ago. I came out of a Whole Foods just after dark and as I approached my car, I saw something sitting on the driver door handle. It was a little yellow rubber ducky in a Pink Jeep! Evidently, Jeep owners of a certain younger generation love to do something called “getting ducked.” If you’re a Jeep owner (in some states, it’s only for Wrangler owners; in other states, like CA, it’s for any Jeep owner), you might get this ducky with a Jeep-shaped card attached that reads “Nice Ride!” on one side and on the other side a handwritten note. Mine read “Happy Valentine’s Day!” Needless to say, I had a good laugh.

And a good start to my latest get-all-my-ducks-in-a-row adventure.

#duckduckjeep #amwriting #writersoninstagram #gettingducked #goals #life #living

A Dose of Reality

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The Vatican in Rome, Italy viewed from Castel Sant’Angelo, Nov 2018

It’s All Her Fault…

I blame it on author Frances Mayes. Her dreamy, flowery, prosaic descriptions of Tuscany won me over from the first time I saw the movie (based on her book), Under the Tuscan Sun (2003).

Once I’d made the decision to vacation in Italy, her books on life in Tuscany were all I could think about, so I grabbed copies from our local library and voraciously devoured her version of a Tuscan life (where she lives with her husband eight months of the year). I devoured then bought a copy of my own of her mouth-watering cookbook, Recipes from Our Italian Kitchen: The Tuscan Sun Cookbook, based on the local cuisine of Cortona and the surrounding region of Arezzo.

My idea of Italy was more of an ideal, it turns out. Then again, I didn’t get to visit Cortona or the Arezzo region (inclement weather kept me in Siena) so it’s hard to compare. Life in the Tuscan countryside, I’m sure, is a step up from life in the city – any city.

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Since I was flying into Rome, I decided to stay a few days and check it out. Yes, it has an ancient history famous around the globe and it smacks you in the face wherever you go. In other words, Rome is still ancient in many ways: stone buildings, stone streets, stone sidewalks and you need some good shoes for walking them. Stone everywhere but plenty of places to eat: on every block, there are ristorantes, osterias, trattorias, and gelaterias. You can’t go three feet without coming upon another place to eat something.

Lots of goodies to choose from but after a while, I noticed the menus were getting redundant. Not a lot of variety in Roman cuisine, in my opinion but I’m not Rick Steves (PBS travel host) and I didn’t travel into local neighborhoods. I did manage to score some good meals at the occasional small, local restaurant and the house wines were some of the best I’ve had (and the cheapest). Even the coffee was smoother and tastier and there wasn’t a Starbucks anywhere (I doubt it would be welcome anyway since Italians are as fanatic about their coffee as they are about fresh cheese/meat).

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I did the touristy tours of the Colosseum, the Vatican (resplendent with too much art, if you ask me) and the famous Borghese Gallery Museum (think Bernini, Caravaggio and Michelangelo). They were gorgeous sites (the Colosseum was my personal favorite in spite of the freezing weather and pouring rain) but what struck me about Rome is how dirty it is. Trash lines the streets (loose and bagged); cigarette butts pepper every block, every inch of curb, and the stench of cigarette smoke is everywhere – Italians, it turns out, are big smokers. Nausea was my constant companion and a real appetite-buster.

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Most folks were friendly and had at least a basic grasp of English. I have a basic grasp of Italian, so I found my way around just fine. The food was incredibly fresh; cheeses and meats weren’t salty and had a flavor I’ve not tasted before and would like to again. None of the food was salty, as Italians tend not to use it in their cooking, so at first food tasted a bit bland until I got used to all the fresh flavors in the dishes.

At this point, the only sunny day I’d had was my last day in Rome so I took advantage and climbed to the observation deck of Castel Santangelo (the same deck Julia Roberts climbed in the movie, Eat Pray Love) for a full circular view of Rome and beyond. A most delightful experience, to see the Seven Hills of Rome, the Apennines mountain range, and much more.

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Next stop was Siena, about ninety minutes west of Cortona and south of the Chianti region (of which Florence is a part). Siena is a small hilltop village, also lined with stone streets and sidewalks. The tall buildings and narrow streets, while charming, made it difficult to see any sun unless you walked to Il Campo, located at the north end of the city, where a wide piazza invites visitors and residents to open air and multiple eateries. It continued to rain and the temperatures dropped again so I went shopping. With some Black Week sales (they stretch out Black Friday to increase sales during a slower tourist season), I scored a nice pair of Italian leather boots and cashmere-lined leather gloves, both at 50% off. Who can say no to Italian leather?

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My shot of a typical street in Siena, Italy

I topped off the trip in Florence, where I stayed the longest. Once again, rain and cold weather followed me. Once in Florence, I settled into my new room (they were all A+ in service and style) and planned my adventures. Florence is home to Michelangelo’s David, so that was the main event, the main reason for my visit to Florence and Italy in general. I’m not much of a church person; one gothic church looks like another to me so I skipped the Duomo and other famous churches. I perused my travel guide and chose other sites to visit, like the DaVinci museum with its small-scaled copies of his inventions that we got to play with to see how they work. Luckily, all were within walking distance of my centrally-located hotel.

In a previous blog, I wrote about needing to marvel at something…and David is certainly something to marvel at, a colossus at twenty-nine feet (seventeen of it is just him). I spent an hour with him, among others who felt the same, unable to leave the room. He is a sight to behold; tears flowed down my cheeks in awe. Nothing else I saw in Florence matched up, not even close.

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David by Michelangelo at L’Accademia in Florence, Italy. My shot. Nov 2018.

Exploring Florence was an adventure; since I didn’t have an international package for my phone, I had to rely on my map reading skills to find my way around. It took a bit of adjusting. It was a strange feeling to rely on my gray cells instead of Google Maps but old habits settled back in and I wandered without getting too lost. I loved the food here more than Rome or Siena.

My favorite item, one that Frances Mayes got me excited about in her books, was cinghiale, or wild boar. It was hunting season during my visit so restaurants got fresh meat from locals hunters. It’s basically wild pork but with a more tender texture and not-as-sweet flavor. One of the ways it’s served in Florence is with roasted potatoes in a robust tomato sauce, paired with – of course – a glass of Chianti Riservo from a local vineyard. Scrumptious. It was one of the best meals I had on my whole trip.

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Then I discovered a little local place, La Capennina, up the block from the famous Mercato Centrale – a food market to end all other food markets – and I ate there more than once. I stayed away from tourist traps because the prices were too high for lower quality food and service. Once again, the house wines were beyond compare; if we order the cheapest wine on the menu here in the states, we get something we need to spit out.

I ventured into wine country on a day trip/excursion with a group; we headed to the northern part of the Chianti region. Vineyards and olive farms dotted the lush fall landscape and we sampled fresh wines and olive oil through the day, ending with a most delicious three-course meal at a vineyard/B&B that also included drinking some very fine Chianti wines (not bad for $65 American dollars, eh?). We learned about stone-pressed olive oil versus the more modern style that uses a centrifuge. I bought some of both for myself and for gifts, eager to crack open a bottle once I arrived home. (Trust me, that bottle didn’t last long.)

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All in all, I enjoyed the trip. Honestly, one of my favorite and most surprising aspect was how quiet it was at night; sleep came easily. No booming car stereos, no loud residents drunkenly cavorting by my window late at night, no sounds of street traffic. A very different way of life there, for sure. Will I go again? If I do, it will be to the countryside, to the place where Frances Mayes has made a home (or something like it). Cities are a nice place to visit but the countryside is where I’ll find more to marvel at: the friendships, the food, the community of residents, the landscape; this is what draws one in and makes one stay.

That’s marvelous – è meraviglioso!

Post Script: I mustn’t forget to mention Da Vinci, my personal favorite. Plenty of his works in Florence as well. He inspires me to be more: curious, thinker, creator, writer, etc.

Quit It!

I Quit

Exciting news…I finally quit my contract J-O-B. Recent events have afforded me an opportunity to rest, reflect, renew, and best of all, write. Been a long time coming. I plan to take full advantage of this wondrous extended vacation (at least to the end of this year), including a real vacation, as in get my ass on a plane and go somewhere (making plans to visit Rome and Tuscany; lots of inspiration there, I’m sure). I’ve made a list of projects needing completion, editing, or launching; tasks around the house to complete; day trips to places I’ve not yet been – it’s prime hiking season here right now. I’ll also have free time to interview some experts on aspects of my current in-the-works fiction novel.

I feel like Julia Roberts’ character in the movie, Eat Pray Love, where she tells her best friend that she has no passion and wants to marvel at something. This is exactly where I am in my life and work. Food tastes blasé; I can’t even feel excitement for the new car I spent months looking for, or the fact that I found the strength to walk away from my  contract job. I’ve gone numb and am in deep need of serious eye- and mind-opening experiences. (Okay, and gastronomic, too, since I’m going to Italy!)

On the topic of quitting: I’m also quitting LinkedIn, Mind Body Network, and a couple writer blogs I follow. I’m cleaning house, as it were. After some deliberation, I admitted to myself that I’m not getting anything from some of the SM except an overload of junk news. LinkedIn, for example, has become too much of a social platform like Facebook, though I realize that was not the intention of the LI creators. Give people a yard, they take a mile. Everyone wants to put in his or her two cents. Information overload!

As I sit back and view the bigger picture with all this SM technology, I can’t help but both marvel and cringe at the same time. Sure, it has opened up the world to everyone in it, but is that necessary for daily life? Some days I feel left out because I’m not participating in posts, tweets, and uploads. Other days I’m grateful because it frees up my precious private time to actually go live my life. It’s a mixed bag, to say the least. 

I also plan to spend some money and time (now that I have a bit of both) on marketing my current works. Sure, putting more books out there is a great way to draw attention to earlier work (hence the projects), but some type of marketing is always necessary, no matter how long ago you published and I’ve been negligent.

With opportunity comes ideas and I’m filling my new writer’s notebook with plenty. It feels good to actively be creating instead of stagnating. I look forward to some quiet time, as that is just as necessary (and often as inspirational) to move forward with my writing and life.

Where are you in your writing and life? Can you take a break? If only for a week or two? Rest and renewal are crucial to unclutter your mind, give you a new perspective, perhaps a new direction. Is it worth the risk? Possibly. Only one way to find out… 

 

Scribbling

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Courtesy Jack London State Park, Google Images

Here in Northern California, we’ve been experiencing a spate of wildfires (15 statewide total) that have all but drained our firefighting resources. A local news station did a Special Report on the damage inflicted by these wildfires, including land, homes and lives lost. Terrible. As they looked back over the past seven years to show how fires have increased in frequency and size, they focused on the 2017 Tubbs fire, the most disastrous fire in California history. They talked about how it nearly decimated the Jack London State Park in Napa County.

For those of you who grew up reading great classic authors like Robert Louis Stevenson, Rudyard Kipling, Charles Dickens, etc., Jack London was a prolific writer and adventurer who settled here in the Napa/Sonoma region in the early 1900s. In fact, it was much of his worldwide adventuring that lead to the writing of some of the best works of the 20th century, including my personal favorites, White Fang and The Call of the Wild

The newscasters shared details on how State rangers packed up his personal belongings in order to save them in case the fire reached his home and property (it came close, but thankfully missed), storing them all the way out here in Sacramento for safekeeping. Now returned to its former glory, his writing room still contains all of his writing instruments and materials, his desk, and other accoutrements: the twine strung across a closed-in porch, with a multitude of little notes clothes-pinned to the line. Jack scribbled these notes on small square pieces of white paper whenever something came to him (which was daily, evidently). He pinned them to the line for later use in his books.

And did you know that Jack London wrote ONE THOUSAND words EVERY DAY, BY LUNCHTIME

The closest I come is a notebook marked “Write What You Know” on the front and it’s where I scribble when I need to unload. It’s not a journal; it’s simply a place to jot down whatever is rumbling around in my mind at a certain moment in time instead of pinning them around my house and looking like a crazy person. It’s where I scribbled the first chapter of my novel, a dark short story, and some senseless meanderings I tore out. I have never come close to a thousand words a day and likely never will. I’m not that motivated, even in a good month.

Out there on the world wide web you’ll find a plethora of expert advice by professional writers telling you to write daily. That’s nice if you’re fortunate to be earning a living from your writing, but what if you aren’t? And does it really matter if you write daily? I think not. I think we each should adhere to whatever writing principles fits our lifestyles, since one size surely does not fit all. Jack, like many famous writers, wrote daily (what else was there to do in the middle of a jungle at night?). I think it’s because he had so many stories in him to share it was the only way he could get to the next book.

Do we have any less stories? Perhaps, perhaps not. Some of us don’t travel or adventure as much as folks did back then, when it was easier and more affordable; you didn’t need a passport (until WWI), so moving between countries was much easier. And we’re busy working full-time jobs, part-time jobs, raising families, caring for parents, finishing a college education, etc. We have (modern) lives to live! Which brings me back to the point of the title – those lives give us fodder for our stories. So if you’re not scribbling daily, that’s okay (see Call of the Word); but it’s probably a good idea to at least have a place (notebook, clothesline, etc.) for you to scribble your ideas – the good, the bad, and the ugly, so at some point you, too, can turn them into a cohesive work. Like Jack.

Scribble on!

 

Walter Mitty and Me

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Getting Ideas…

It’s Memorial Weekend and am actually off today…so a bit of relaxing and writing is in order. I watched a movie while eating lunch, instead of sitting in my kitchen staring out the window. I watched the remake of “The Secret Life of Walter Mitty” with Ben Stiller. Cute movie. And a reminder of something I’ve written about before – a life on the road – or at least some adventures peppered with some bad decisions.

What caught my eye was at the end of the movie where Walter is re-writing his resume, since he’s lost his job at LIFE magazine. Instead of the usual humdrum skills checklist and god-awful BORING summary (Professional with a strong work ethic and multiple years of interaction with people in various work settings…yes, this is mine…), he listed his adventures (jet boarding down some road in Iceland, jumped from helicopter into the sea, etc.). It got me to thinking..if we are to get out of that conformist corporate box of a day-to-day J-O-B and move into our lives, how would a resume like that go over? 

…And Dreaming of New Answers

As a writer, I often dream like Walter Mitty of writing and traveling and earning enough to live on. Competition is stiff in most fields these days, so thinking out-of-the-box is essential to succeed, especially as a writer. I’ve got that looping tape in my head of my mother telling me to “just get a job.” It’s been there for over forty years and I’ve yet to figure out how to erase it. The movie reminded me that when we’re busy living our lives we don’t have time for daydreaming, because we’re actually living our dreams. So I’m going to re-think how I present myself to the world, because I have had some great adventures (including some based on bad decisions) and I need to give myself more credit for them.

As a writer, I know I’ll never be a New York Times bestselling novelist. I’m okay with knowing that I’m a mediocre writer – what’s so wrong with average anyway? I may have a smaller audience but they’re an audience nonetheless. The fact that there are folks like you out there, listening and hopefully gleaning something from my work, is what’s important to me now. I no longer strive to reach or grab the brass ring. I have dreamed for years of becoming a writer, only to finally admit that I AM a writer – with or without the audience or brass ring.

Lesson: Dream your dreams. Take a chance every now and then to live one out, just to see where it takes you. Then you can write all about it.

The Write to Roam

I want to learn more about how to live life on the road and write while I’m on it. I want to upgrade my car to an RV. That way wherever I roam, I’m already home. No more spending hard-earned money on a storage unit to keep my life in and no more wasting money on rent. Or trying to prove I’m a good person so some management company will rent an over-priced apartment to me; or a roommate who doesn’t fear I’ll sneak into her room late one night and stab her 150 times just for the helluva it.

(A quick aside: I firmly believe credit checks are a new form of discrimination against people  who have fallen on hard times – once known as the middle class – and are scrambling to work their way up from the pit of poverty they’ve fallen into thanks to greedy politicians and corporations determined to serve their own purposes over our needs.)

I want to roam North America and meet people from all walks of life, which I’ve already done on four brazen cross-country trips as I moved to some new location, having become bored with the last one, because it became stale and uninteresting. I enjoyed meeting people for those brief moments, while they allowed me a glimpse into their storied lives.

One of my favorite memories came on my first cross-country trip: Charlie and his two friends (shame on me, I didn’t note all their names and have since forgotten) were riding their Harleys to the Sturgis bike rally in August of 2005. We met while staying at a small motel in Kanorado, a spit of a town on the border of Kansas and Colorado, hence the name. If memory serves me, we met while checking in at the front desk. We chatted while checking in and exchanged reasons for needing rooms.

They were pleasant fellows and invited me to have breakfast with them the following morning after checkout, at a nearby diner. We had great conversation and I remember laughing most of the time. They hailed from Alabama and had slight southern drawls. Charlie (the fellow on the furthest right in the photo on the left) was just a big teddy bear and he’s the one who made me laugh the most. This is what I remember about these guys and always will. Funny how people who barely touch your life can become some of the most memorable.

And now I get to write about them, weaving them into my life’s story.

I’ve been doing some research into starting a podcast as another MPC and it seems awfully techie to me at this point, which has a tendency to deflate my enthusiasm. There are excellent tips on the Smart Passive Income site by Pat Flynn and on some other sites I found. Hope to build it up to a point where I can actually provide for myself from it and give myself the gift of life on the road. Wouldn’t it be grand to podcast from every corner of North America!

A nomadic lifestyle, once the cornerstone of life on this continent (thanks to the many Indigenous peoples who have lived here for eons), has once again become popular. Somewhere in between being strangled by a 30-year mortgage (where the house owns you, not the other way around, as most people proclaim) and working in a square-peg-round-hole, soul-sucking J-O-B, many folks have felt the need to escape a life of conformity and embrace adventure into the unknown. Like Charles Kuralt and his always interesting On the Road series and travel books, I wish to embrace the freedom, challenge, and all the details of a life on the road – so I, too, can have the write to roam.

“The everyday kindness of the back roads more than makes up for the acts of greed in the headlines.”

{Charles Kuralt}

“It was so much fun to have the freedom to wander America, with no assignments. For 25 or 30 years I never had an assignment. These were all stories I wanted to do myself.” 

Writing as One Profit Center

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Multiple Profit Centers (MPCs) Increase Your Overall Potential

I was in the mood to read a book today so I snagged a book I’ve been working my way through from the bookshelf. I’ve mentioned this book before – Making a Living Without a Job by Barbara J. Winters (update: sadly, she passed away in Oct 2022 after a long illness). I’m in a bit of a pickle at the moment (I won’t bore you with the details but suffice it to say that my life will be turned upside down as of end of this month, which could turn good or bad).

I’ve been racking my brain on how to create more of what Barbara calls Multiple Profit Centers or MPCs. It’s her theory that by creating MPCs, you increase your potential for prosperity and a more balanced life. Each profit center/idea/ job/entrepreneurial adventure has its own rhythm; over time, you create a steady stream of income because while one or two MPCs may experience a lull in business, one or two other of your MPCs will be on the upswing and generate income.

She even mentions getting paid to write articles. Personally, I’ve not had much luck in this area (the getting paid part). In a previous blog, I wrote about getting exposure for your work via trade journals. In my experience, this type of exposure doesn’t pay (if it does, please let me know how – and now!). But I would enjoy writing articles for other publications; problem is, I’m not sure how to go about doing that (query advice anyone?). If any of you have had some success in this area, please share your experience and expertise so that we who have not yet tasted that kind of success can take a step closer.

A Quotable Quote

Something else in her book got me thinking – and it made perfect sense. This is from her chapter on creating MPCs and is a quote from author and former London Business School professor Charles Handy (she quotes him in her newsletters), who advocates developing MPCs:

“Think of it this way, ” he advises. “You will have a portfolio of work like an architect has, or like your stock portfolio, no prudent investor puts all his savings into one stock, and no sensible business goes after only one customer. Yet that’s what you’ve been doing with your work and talent all these years….Now is your chance to go ‘portfolio’: to diversify your interests and do some things for money, some because they interest you, some out of love or kindness, and some for the sheer hell of it. And, moreover, it’s your chance to flex your portfolio to leave you time for all those other things – for travel, for discovery, for golf, for dining.”

Wow.

Patience and Perseverance

That brought me back to one of my early blogs, Be Careful What You Wish For. I realized I have already created MPCs, except that they don’t (yet) pay the rent. I guess I need to come up with a few more MPCs to cover the downswing of the current ones. It’s just that I feel lost amid the millions of voices already out there clambering for everyone’s business. All I can come up with at the moment is that I (and you, too) need to find a way to STAND OUT by doing something DIFFERENT with my (and your) skill set. Only then can my writing become a Multiple Profit Center that truly pays and supports my no-more-nine-to-five lifestyle.

What’s your MPC

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