It’s All in How You Look At It

Posted on September 2, 2025 by MestengoBooks

Like I always do, I re-read my last post several times. Partly because I like the way it turned out and partly because the point I made about fully realizing a goal is still relevant (and will be until I fully realize that goal).

Which got me thinking…

A Different Perspective

What if I adopted a different view of all this moving/running/traveling/ adventuring I’ve done the last 35 years? I’ve often complained (to myself and a professional ear) about not finding a ‘home’ – a place where I can put down roots and connect to the people and place. After reading the last post one more time, something dawned on me. Maybe I’ve spent too much time believing that each move was going to be temporary because, well, they have been. And maybe that’s on me for seeing them only that way.

Note: Another aspect is that, over the decades, I have seen more renters (including me) forced into transient lifestyles because of rent increases based on variable ‘market values,’ thereby creating the very instability we’re trying so hard to avoid. Rarely does one rent a place with the expectation of staying long-term, like 10-15 years, anymore. And I realized that is exactly what I’m seeking. Not permanence (no such thing), but S-T-A-B-I-L-I-T-Y.

What if…I decided to view a move to a new place as something that could be stable if I allowed it? By allow, I mean inject some level of stability into the new place? I’ve had a habit of buying used or cheap furniture, figuring why invest in nice things to make a home when I’ll just be packing it up in 12 months anyway. Then it dawned on me: what a negative way to approach a new opportunity to create something.

Now, It Comes To Me…Slowly

At some point after the opportunity to come home opened up, I decided on a different approach. I bought new furniture for this new place because I wanted new. I’m tired of buying someone else’s energy (couches and beds can hold a lot of positive and negative energies). I decided that I wanted pieces that reflect me and my home. Yesterday, I surveyed my new surroundings and took a few moments to take it all in. I realized that my ‘temporary’ mentality had manifested as exactly that with every move over the better part of the last three decades.

Aha…

Change is Good, Right?

Then I began thinking, what if I make a conscious decision to invest in some sense of a stable life? What if I approached this relocation to my new (old) home as a process of bringing some level of permanence (i.e., settling in to a place and making it a home) to my up-till-now gypsy lifestyle? I’m tired of the move-relocate-move-then-repeat cycle. It’s exhausting.

Our attitude, how we perceive situations, problems, even life, can change our behavior if we choose to see it from a different angle. I’m not sure how effective this approach will be for me, but I’m at least willing to give it a try. Are you?

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The Descent After the Goal

Posted on August 10, 2025 by MestengoBooks

Source: https://divination.com/iching/lookup/64-2/

It’s Sunday morning – okay, by now it’s late Sunday morning, because I’ve been reading the paper, doing one of the word puzzles, drinking my tea and basically taking my time and enjoying my Sunday morning. On a whim, I decided to check my I Ching reading for the day (on ifate.com, in case you’re interested, because it’s FREE). It’s an interesting read, to say the least.

The Goal Achieved?

I recently (and finally) relocated back home. I got the he** out of California and don’t miss it at all, especially since wildfire season is in full swing. I do miss the Meyer lemons, though. Imagine a lemon sweet enough to suck on and delicious enough to make the best lemony desserts. (Note: it was mated with a mandarin back in the late 1800s by a man from China; some guy named Fred Meyer then brought it to the U.S.)

But I digress…

It was a rocky relocation and I’m being kind when I say that. For example, the moving company somehow managed to not pack a single stitch of my clothing or any of my bedding into the UBox that was shipped 3,500 miles to my new (old) home. That and some other challenges have taken up much of the last 5-6 weeks to resolve (me and my clothes have since been re-united) and my stress level has been way too high for way too long. Hence this long, quiet, and relaxing Sunday morning…I need it.

Sometimes the hexagram readings are spot-on with what’s currently happening. Other times, you have to really think about how it relates to your life currently or in the near future. Today, it was spot-on and it opened my eyes, especially the last two paragraphs. Talk about prophetic…

Going Up

“The situation represented by this reading can be compared to taking a lengthy trek over a high mountain. At some point before reaching the peak, you can see—in detail—exactly how much farther you have to travel. You will have a good idea of what it will take to reach the top, because of the climbing experience you’ve accumulated thus far. However, when you do reach the peak (which has been in sight for quite a long period of sustained effort), you will have done only that. You will have reached the top and achieved your initial goal, but you still must descend the other side. This last critical segment is what remains before completion.”

~ From Divination.com by the Divination Foundation

With all the planning I did while still in CA (emails, phone calls, security deposit that got delayed, etc.), I could finally see that goal – I was going home. But it was all I could see. Or would see, to be truthful. I was obsessed with getting to the top, reaching what I thought was the whole goal. I was wrong…

Then Down

After a few minutes of contemplation, this came to me: I’m finally here. I’ve reached the pinnacle of the mountain (the goal to come home). But now I must go down the other side to complete this journey. Going down is usually much easier, though there may still be challenges along the way.

The second paragraph struck me in a way that opened my eyes to a long pattern of only keeping my eye on the pinnacle, the goal at the top/end, and not the whole journey, which includes going down the other side of the mountain to complete the goal/cycle (I added the bold and italics):

“Consider, too, the possibility that you have little information and no experience of what it’s like descending the other side of the mountain, because all your attention has been focused on the path going up. The coming situation may seem very strange to you—unlike anything that you have experienced before—but the other side of the mountain is where the true mysteries reside. Proceed carefully, cautiously, and alertly; and you will arrive honorably at the completion of your goal.”

~ From Divination.com by the Divination Foundation

Revelation (of Something Missed)

OMG. You mean there’s more?

Of course there is. What goes up, must come down, remember? All these years I’ve only been focused on a part of the goal, thinking it was the whole goal the whole time. How wrong I was.

Getting here was only a part of the goal, not a completion of the goal. Now that I think about it, it makes sense. I still have work to do. I’m home and yet I’m not – not yet, anyway. I’m at a stopping-off place along the way, along the journey to my goal of coming home. I’m close but I’m not yet finished. The goal is not complete. But it will be, because now I know to watch my step as I climb down from the top of that mountain and into my new (old) life here at home.

Safe travels to all who dare that climb up. Don’t forget to climb down!

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Dare to Be Different… Because Different isn’t Bad, it’s Just Different…

Posted on March 25, 2024 by MestengoBooks

My (illicit) photo of DaVinci’s backward handwriting, from the Uffizi in Florence, Italy, 2018 (security guard caught me before I could take more shots)

Don’t Fit the Mold? Me Neither!

I’ve always been a square-peg-round-hole kind of person. I have never fit into any particular mold, which is why I never hung out with any ‘popular’ crowd in grade or high school (or at any other time in my life). I realized early on that to do that would mean I would have to give up my individual ideas for the sake of the ‘group mentality’ one finds in those so-called popular cliques.

From the outside, they appear to be the kind of people every other kid in school (read: nerds, outsiders and smart kids) yearns to be. Yet anyone who has ever been on the outer edge of one of these social circles knows the truth of their required conformist behavior.

A ‘Different’ Light Bulb

It took me through my early college years to understand the label of ‘different’ and decided it was complimentary even though it was never intended to be anything but demoralizing. I haven’t minded being different. My ideas, ideals, points of view and opinions were almost always the Devil’s Advocate in any room or group and I felt that was my strength, to see what others cannot. What I have struggled with is how I was treated back then, because I didn’t perceive/experience the world the way everyone else did (and still don’t) and how it has shaped my (occasionally negative) self-perception.

All along the way I was bullied by people who couldn’t handle my ‘different-ness’ and thus belittled me because they, it turned out, were the problem. They didn’t know what to do with a kid who saw the world in the unique and colorful way. They sent the message that being different was something terrible/wrong, something others should not or could not tolerate. I upset their status quo and the only way they knew how to respond was to knock me down physically and verbally.

A Genius of a ‘Different’ Color

Leonardo DaVinci, the famous Italian painter (of the Mona Lisa and so much more), was one of those ‘different’ people, in ways perhaps too numerous to count. His artistic talents (painting, sketching, sculpting), math skills (polymath), engineering, architecture and more, were so far ahead of his time that many couldn’t see his brilliance and foresight. To completely define his ‘different-ness,’ DaVinci, left-hand dominant, wrote fluidly in reverse composition (see photo above) in his native Old Italian.

I can use my right/left hands almost equally in some situations but I’m mostly right-hand dominant. I sometimes prefer one over the other in certain situations – I batted lefty/righty in baseball, played field hockey lefty and tennis righty.

It dawned on me that right-handed people write outward from the body. It’s a natural flow of movement. I tried writing backward with my left hand and, though a bit awkward at first, found that writing away from the body on the left side is just as natural. You have spend some time thinking about how to shape the letters in reverse. I was intrigued by the process.

Many ‘experts’ have pondered why Da Vinci wrote in reverse. I can’t help but theorize it was because that is the natural movement/flow for someone who is left-hand dominant. Regardless of the reason, it was one of many aspects that made him different – not wrong, not bad, just different. I can’t imagine our modern life without his contributions, can you?

Celebrate your different-ness. Don’t let others knock you down for seeing the world uniquely. Use your artistic abilities to express who you are and what you see, not who/what others want you to be.

Remember, it’s their failing, not yours.

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Things That Make You Go…’Hmmm’

Posted on March 16, 2024 by MestengoBooks

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Inevitable

It was only so long before artificial intelligence (AI) not only infiltrated our every day lives but took command of some aspects, with or without our permission. The question of whether machines will or can replace us (or much of the work that we do, including writing) is moot. AI is here and the worlds of good and evil (e.g., hacking or stealing intellectual property/IP rights) are colliding.

AI technologies are evolving at such a rapid pace it’s hard to keep up legally. It’s important to understand fully your rights as a writer/creator and how to protect your work products. From attorney Matt Knight on his Sidebar Saturdays blog:

“As artificial intelligence (AI) continues to develop, it’s becoming increasingly capable of creating works indistinguishable from those created by humans, which raises intriguing questions about intellectual property rights. One such area of concern is what can be copyright-protected in a work generated by AI. Another area is the potential for infringement of copyrights by AI systems.”

Basic Copyright Law

According to Matt Knight, “copyright law protects original works of authorship fixed in any tangible medium of expression” no matter how you created them. Your creations are yours and no one else’s. However, Matt writes, “[c]opyright protection does not extend to ideas or facts; instead, it safeguards the expression of those ideas in a tangible form.” (my bold added)

Except…

Per the U.S. Copyright Office, there is no copyright protection for works created by non-humans, including machines or other automated means. And…

” …in March 2023, the U.S. Copyright Office guided creators working with AI tools on registering their works. The policy statement notes that only human-made creations are eligible for copyright protection. A human may select or arrange AI-generated material in a sufficiently creative way that the resulting work as a whole constitutes an original work of authorship. Or an artist may modify material originally generated by AI technology to such a degree that the modifications meet the standard for copyright protection. In these cases, according to the Copyright Office, copyright will only protect aspects of the work made by the authoring human, i.e., resulting in partial protection of entire works.”

Sidebar Saturdays, Mar 2, 2024

Robot vs. Human – Who Has the Right?

There’s an interesting article in Smithsonian magazine on AI robots re-creating sculptures by Michelangelo and other famous sculptors (Bernini, etc.). While robots are able to re-create these famous sculptures, humans are still required for the finishing touches. Per the U.S. Copyright Office, only those finishing touches would be protected. Is an AI shortcut truly an artistic expression of human creativity? Or is it lazy art, stealing from the Great Masters and the rest of us creators?

“Today, Tincolini, Massari, and their team of technicians and artisans create sculptures on commission for artists, architects and designers, and they sell their technology to clients around the world.”

“What used to take months or even years can now be done in days,” he said. “Machines can run round-the-clock. They don’t get sick or sleep or go on vacation.”

by Elain Sciolino for Smithsonian Magazine, December 2023

And So It Goes…

There are cases currently pending, Matt writes, including “one high-profile case is the New York Times vs. Microsoft, Open AI, in which NYT alleges that OpenAI and Microsoft unlawfully engaged in widescale copying of millions of copyrighted news articles, investigations, opinion pieces, and more to create artificial intelligence products, all without permission or payment.”

Microsoft argues ‘fair use’ because they consider it to be “transformative use” for training AI models. I question this argument because they accessed copyrighted material, regardless of how they were going to use it. Maybe Microsoft concludes that since they don’t profit directly from the “transformative use” it’s okay to download the IP materials. I’m curious as to how this plays out and what kind of precedents will come of these AI cases.

It Was Nice to Share

I’ll be honest – with the advent and proliferation of AI, I’m nervous about what could happen to any of my IP. I feel like I’m becoming more of a hermit, hoarding my works for only myself to enjoy. I’m anxious about losing royalties (for many it’s how creators make a living or supplement their income) and whatever credit might come my way from an appreciation of my work product.

Have you thought about how you will protect your IP? Do you use AI in your work and to what extent? Familiarize yourself with copyright laws regarding AI.

Protect your work, your livelihood.

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Ruin Is the Road to Transformation…So What Are You Waiting For?

Posted on February 21, 2024 by MestengoBooks

Quote by author Elizabeth Gilbert from the book/movie, Eat Pray Love

Lesson Learned…Again and Again

I watched Eat Pray Love again last weekend, for the umpteenth time…and each time I watch it I glean some lesson, either newly learned or temporarily forgotten, from the wise and wonderful words written by author Elizabeth Gilbert. I found the book much funnier than the movie because her voice was more present in the writing but not in the overall script. I keep returning to the movie for bits of badly needed wisdom, as if it were a roadmap of my own life.

Like Humpty Dumpty, Only Better

What always hits home for me is the quote above about transformation. About getting knocked down repeatedly and rearranging yourself or your life because it’s necessary in order to move forward, out of a stuck place. The message is: You have to be willing to fall apart to put yourself back together again.

It’s also a bit like my Badly Designed Parking Lot post…because it’s about recognizing what isn’t working for you in your life (job, home, relationships, writing gigs, etc.) and making a conscious decision to change what needs to be changed. Change is always chaotic until the cycle is complete. Only then can we see in hindsight that those changes were right and necessary, however uncomfortable. Getting out of our comfort zones is what activates us; staying in those comfort zones (fear of change), whether you realize it or not, is not all that comfortable. It’s just familiar (read: less scary).

Ouch, That Hurts…

As of late, I have been banging my head against the proverbial brick wall with – surprise – the same (undesirable) result each time. And when I made a decision to finally and completely let go, I went quiet inside because, as I now realize, it was the right decision, no matter how risky I deemed it to be. The proverbial leap of faith. And it paid off.

Long story short: Two years of temp jobs weren’t working out (for a variety of reasons) and the last one, due to run about eight months, was cut short after only four days, by the client. I wasn’t all that upset – which surprised me – but my approach to this ongoing issue (that brick wall I’d been banging my head against for two years) was simple and logical. I sent an email saying I no longer wanted to work for the agency or their client. I was done being chewed up and spit out.

We are often forced down that road to transformation because we reach a boiling point, a point where no amount of contrition from the trespassers will keep us from making the right and necessary decision.

The Relief, the Freedom

My (new) passive income kicked in this month and allows me time for art projects I’ve been putting together. Hundreds of ideas zip around in my head and my imagination has free reign in my brain. Now I have both options and time (but not too much $$ but that too can be changed with a little effort). What a feeling. A family member responded to my news with this: “So you have joined the ranks of the “senior, experienced, wise, freed up, interested, etc. Enjoy while you can.”

I plan to. Because all the ruination/transformation that has defined so much of my life seems to finally be winding down. And I can breathe. Truly and deeply. And it feels oh, so good.

And so can you. If only you let go. So what are you waiting for?

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Better Late Than Never

Posted on February 9, 2024 by MestengoBooks

Credit: Google Images

Almost Forgot…

Okay, I’m a little behind the eight ball this year…

I’ve had a rough few weeks, so my mind has been on other, more important (or less trivial) things. This is the time of year where I like to remind all of you writers to clean out your old files/projects/works, old stories that will never see the light of day and any other projects that have been at a standstill for at least a few years. Time to heave-ho. Put them in your “file 13” (trash can – digital or paper).

A Chance to Begin Again…

Today is the first day of the Chinese New Year, the Green Wood Dragon 2024. Gung Hay Fat Choi – which is Cantonese for “congratulations on prospering in money.” In Mandarin, it’s Gong xi fat cai.

“It is a popular saying you’ll hear frequently during Chinese New Year. Unlike Americans, this Chinese congratulatory greeting is not based on something already achieved but instead is a wish or hope that you will achieve what you desire, hence the congratulations in the phrase. It’s a blessing of good fortune and prosperity (it’s not always money, as many Chinese believed that enough food to eat also represented abundance in one’s life).” MB post, January 26, 2020

This is supposed to be a fortuitous year for many, so I’m crossing my fingers. Because my life has had some major up- and downswings lately, I figure I need all the help I can get. I added a Chinese Dragon as wallpaper to my Google. Added a smaller one to my phone for luck. Tonight I will eat some potstickers (can’t really find Chinese dumplings where I live, it’s a bit rural) for good luck. If you can find mandarin oranges (they’re in season here), buy a bunch (at least 5) and place them in a nice bowl on your kitchen table (another representation of prosperity = enough food to eat). Keep the bowl filled as much as possible through February.

Cleaning House, Again…

In 2021, I wrote about scraps of a writing life – yet I am still clinging (versus just holding on) to some of those unfinished projects and haven’t touched them in years. What am I waiting for? It dawned on me yesterday as I uninstalled a few unused apps on my phone: there was once a time when I lived my life fully and without any of this digital crap. Why am I hanging on to stuff I don’t use? Do I fear missing out on something? Why am I afraid to let go? What exactly do I fear? Why oh why am I saving website links? Why all the digital clutter?

Cleaning house, including computer files, is good for the spirit; it releases stuck energy and makes you feel like you accomplished something worthwhile. So what are you waiting for? Get off your butt and get busy cleaning out those old writing projects that no longer serve a purpose in your life. Let go. (This is the hardest part because we may feel that we failed instead of seeing the incomplete projects as works of exercise that stretched our minds but weren’t meant for public consumption.)

Refresh Your Memory

If you haven’t yet read it, please visit my post on organizing your writing area to empower you and your work. Check out how to clear out old work. Organize (or re-organize) your writing space. Learn how to lay your past projects to rest here. Re-read them if you will, refresh your memory. Let this new year begin with a new version of you, a better version of your work. After all, life is about progress, not perfection, right?

#writing #fengshui #chinesenewyear #greendragon #2024 #writersoninstragram #WritersDigest #WriterBeware #mestengobooks #prosperity #abundance

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The Seven-Year Itch…Plus One

Posted on January 23, 2024 by MestengoBooks

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Lightbulb!

I knew it would come to me sooner or later. I’ve been spending this afternoon re-reading old blog posts to correct grammar, remove now-defunct website links, update format styles and break up long paragraphs into smaller, more easily digestible bits. I knew going over older posts would inspire me and I’d come up with a topic for my next post. I just clicked on my sixth-year workiversary post and realized I now had another two years under my blogging belt.

*raised eyebrow*

Next month will be my EIGHTH year as a blogger. Honestly, I can’t remember ever sticking with anything for this long. As I wrote in that previous blog (Feb 2022):

“It’s a form of adult-ing in which I rarely engage.”

True dat.

Running Out of Good Ideas? Not Likely!

While I occasionally struggle with ideas for this post, I have to say I’m proud of the posts I’ve written here. I’ve had some very good ideas, well-written posts and good suggestions to improve both your writing and your storytelling, as well as a few personal revelations. All in all, I’d say I’m happy with what I’ve shared the past eight years.

To again quote from the six-year anniversary post, “I don’t know how much longer Mestengo Books will be around but I do know this: both your presence and your absence has bettered my writing and clarified my creative process.” It’s the honest truth and I hope to continue this for at least a little while longer. I also hope many of you will continue to take the ride with me. Let’s hang out until it’s time for me to walk away, until it’s time to find another creative outlet I’m willing to commit myself to for a similar period of time.

That’s growth, maturation, shifting perspectives and priorities.

“Everything is ephemeral, both that which remembers and that which is remembered.” Marcus Aurelius

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Good Tips for Writing Great Magazine Articles

Posted on December 31, 2023 by MestengoBooks

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You’ve finished your query for an article you’d like to write and you’re looking for a magazine (or several magazines) to buy it. What next? Here are several tips for turning out a great article that stands a good chance of getting published in a magazine — if you do your homework.

Get All Your Ducks in a Row

Creating an outline for your article idea is an effective writing tool. It helps you organize your thoughts on the topic and break it down into workable pieces (e.g., the introduction, the body, the conclusion). I assume you’ve done some research or made some notes on your article idea. Take that information and use whatever is most relevant to the article. These can become your guides, or main headings, to the layout of the article. If necessary, create subheadings to ensure you have enough content for each section of the article.

Make It Strong, Make It Flow

I’ve touched on this in several previous blog posts – it’s vital that you use strong verbs (not passive tense), tight writing (say what you mean with as few words as possible) and use specific language (in other words, no fillers and crutch words).

Vigorous writing is concise. A sentence should contain no unnecessary words, a paragraph no unnecessary sentences. – Strunk and White, from The Elements of Style

An article that flows well will allow the reader to move seamlessly through the information. Pay attention to your paragraphs. Does the beginning of each new paragraph herald new information, a new and related topic? With reader attention spans even shorter, keep each paragraph to an easily digestible length.

Editors appreciate writers who turn in succinct articles. If you write 1000 words, cut it down to 500. Then cut it down to 250, maintaining the heart of the article. Your article may contain lots of great information but whittling it down to its salient points will grab the editor’s attention (as well as readers). Choose words carefully. Write only what is relevant.

Vague words dilute your writing and weaken the points and information you are conveying. William Zinsser in his book On Writing Well states, “Don’t say you were a bit confused and sort of tired and a little depressed and somewhat annoyed. Be confused. Be tired. Be depressed. Be annoyed. Don’t hedge your prose with timidities. Good writing is lean and confident.” – Kerrie Flanagan in Writer’s Digest Guide to Magazine Article Writing (2018)

Remember, be specific and use strong verbs:

Credit: strong verbs from Writer’s Digest Guide to Magazine Article Writing (2018)

Fact-Checking Isn’t Always Fun But It’s Necessary

Nowadays, almost everyone relies on Google and Bing search engines to find information. Problem is, too many people assume that what is found online is true and fact-based. This is a fallacy and can doom your article. Be thorough in your research, especially in fact-checking any nonfiction information in your article.

One great source is public libraries; librarians can help you find and verify the information or steer you in the proper direction. There are a multitude of online clearing houses that provide factual information, such as the Library of Congress/National Archives. It’s probably one of the most complete library systems in the world, where you can find millions of bits of information based in fact.

In Conclusion

Now that you have a good idea of where to start, there’s nothing stopping you from getting that article published. There are thousands of magazines out there and I’m sure somebody wants to print your work (I think I’m saying this more to myself than to you, dear readers).

A new year is headed our way — a tabula rosa, if you will (look, I used a Latin phrase, wink wink). A clean slate. A fresh start. Get writing and you have a better chance of getting published than if you don’t write. Right? 🙂

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MERRY CHRISTMAS ONE AND ALL…

Posted on December 18, 2023 by MestengoBooks

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I’m not a religious person but who can watch “A Charlie Brown Christmas” and not be touched by Linus’ speech? It is my gift to you this year, dear readers. May you find light and peace within and time with family a blessing…

From “A Charlie Brown Christmas” (1966):

Charlie Brown: Isn’t there anyone who knows what Christmas is all about?

Linus Van Pelt: Sure, Charlie Brown, I can tell you what Christmas is all about. [moves toward the center of the stage]

Linus Van Pelt: Lights, please. [a spotlight shines on Linus]

Linus Van Pelt: “And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, ‘Fear not:” [Linus drops his security blanket on purpose]

Linus Van Pelt: “for behold, I bring unto you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the City of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.’ And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host, praising God, and saying, ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.'”

Linus Van Pelt:That’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown.

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Life is Like a Badly Designed Parking Lot

Posted on December 12, 2023 by MestengoBooks

zigzag

Driving Me Nuts

Yesterday I found myself swerving, zigzagging and avoiding cars driving straight towards me in parking lot lanes barely wide enough to be two-way. The one-way lanes in this lot were so narrow I had to slow down and carefully go around any trucks or SUVs with their rear ends sticking out of the short lanes to avoid hitting cars parked on the opposite side.

*deep sigh*

As I came to a turn, I prayed idiot pedestrians would actually look both ways before stepping out onto the road (in CA they NEVER do that) so I won’t chance hitting one (not that I’d be all that upset if I did). I slammed on the brakes for two guys indifferent to my presence.

As I navigated stop signs and idiot drivers through this parking lot from one side to the other (it’s a shortcut to avoid several lights though I’m rethinking the route now), something dawned on me and I exclaimed it out loud to myself (multiple times) in the car:

“This badly designed parking lot is a metaphor my life here in northern California!”

*Sheesh*

Not the Metaphor I’d Hoped For

2023…this has been a spectacularly challenging year (even though a Black Water Rabbit year, according to Chinese horoscopes, was supposed to be good for me in the area of finance.)

*harrumph*

Temp work all but dried up and permanent work has been beyond my grasp. I can’t explain the feeling of how navigating the parking lot seemed a strange parallel to what my life has been here: a lot of dead ends (choices leading nowhere), stop signs (no, you can’t go that way), people crossing my path (for brief periods and not caring much ), narrow lanes (are you sure this is the right path? not a good fit for you).

I was overcome with such a strong feeling of discombobulation that I now struggle to put it into words. Frustration doesn’t even begin to describe it…it’s as if, no matter how hard I try or which choices I make, the end result is the same: nope, this road ain’t gonna work for you.

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Such is Life…

But life is like that sometimes, right? We’re confronted by numerous adversities, both personal and professional, in our lifetimes and whether we right ourselves depends on our ability to cope and resolve the issue. It’s just that sometimes that feeling of discombobulation is so overwhelming it can be hard to see the way out of a place that isn’t working.

Movin’ On is All You Can Do

Can’t go back in time, can’t stay still, so moving forward, moving on, is the only option. Like the saying “one day at a time,” I must keep moving in a forward direction, one step, one day at a time. Must keep knocking on doors, climbing over walls, finding ways through locked gates. For me, “when one door closes, another door opens” always meant when one door closes, find a damn window to climb through. I’ve always been determined to find a way, no matter how many obstacles in front of me. I don’t like to be told ‘no’ in any form.

Cathartic writing is good for the spirit. Who knows, in sharing this I may finally find my way out of that badly designed parking lot and on to a smoother road. Or maybe a reader will come up with a resolution to a similar problem. Either way, all we can do is hope, right?

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My Favorite Blogs: How Tos, Who Dos, and Need to Knows

Posted on April 22, 2023 by MestengoBooks

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Looking for Ideas

In trying to come up with a new post, I did what I often do – I re-read my previous posts for inspiration. I noticed some patterns in my blog posts and some, well, obsessions, actually. Like my obsession with good grammar. Did you note that in this post’s title I used plural (Dos) and not possessive (Do’s) form?

That’s in favorite grammar blog #2!

I have noted more than once my loathing for poor grammar, as it makes for poor communication and lowers a writer’s credibility. Turns out, when I looked through my blog, I have written a number of posts on this very subject. To keep the list manageable, I created a ‘top ten’ list of grammar-related posts that I personally like. Think of this as an opportunity to refresh your memory:

On poor grammar and writing:

Then I noticed other patterns. For example, I have written many blog posts related to the concept of home and for writers in general. These ‘top ten’ posts are where I feel my narrative writing style stands out and they provide some good information:

Home and writer-related:

Then I saw another distinct pattern – of writing miscellaneous, fill-in-the-space-between-bad-grammar-rants blog posts. These ‘top ten’ ranged from personal stories to personal opinions and everywhere in between:

Miscellany:

So there you have it. Just in case you missed any…feel free to click on the links and expand your mind…

Now that’s tootin’ my own horn… (wink wink nudge nudge)

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Caveat Emptor: Let the Buyer Beware. Or: If It’s Free, You Get What You Pay For…

Posted on April 13, 2023 by MestengoBooks

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Suckered Again

Lulled once again into a sense of ‘getting something for nothing,’ I happily clicked on a link to Alison dot com, sent by my job coach, to take a FREE online course in becoming a copyeditor. The course takes 2-3 hours and over 4,000 people have already taken the course (as if it adds credibility).

The catch? (Cuz you know there is one, there always is.) The course is free but you have to pay for the certification. Hmm. And when I try to find the fee for said certification, I’m sent back around to finish the course. No heads up as to what it’ll cost me in the end except precious time.

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You Have to Pay to Play

They list the skills you’re going to learn from this basic course. There are more courses, of course, that teach increasing levels of skills and they do offer paid courses, though I’m not sure of the cost or quality of information because I can’t get there without paying first.

According to the website at Alison.com, “a Copy Editor would typically need to:

Fact-check and edit the content of written text to ensure proper use of spelling, grammar, punctuation, syntax, and style guides
Be comfortable working with publishing systems and databases via the internet or from paper manuscripts
Edit news stories, job descriptions, manuscripts, emails, and internal documents, depending on the industry they work in
Manage a significantly more research-centric role, if employed in a technical field that requires specialized knowledge
Ensure the authors provide all necessary material and documentation; review the written content for style and organization; make minor corrections
Leave detailed feedback on organization, focus and tone for the original writer to make required changes
Be able to sub-edit text written by diverse authors to maintain a stable and coherent organizational style”

I can find this information in any basic copyediting book at the library or online. Nothing new here.

The narrator’s voice is female with a noticeable accent that is both British and (East) Indian and, British English is used (spelling is different in certain words). After listening to several sections, I realized it’s a computer-generated voice; pronunciation of certain words was definitely not of the human error kind (accent or emphasis on the wrong syllable or drawn out incorrectly, as AI tends to do).

The following is a basic approach to guidelines when copyediting. See how they spell ‘summarising’? That’s British spelling and my computer keeps trying to change the second ‘s’ to a ‘z’ for American English (‘summarizing’).

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The information isn’t all that spectacular; as I wrote above, this information can be easily found in books at most libraries or online. The Books for Dummies series has a great edition on copyediting and I would recommend that over this course – more information, more than just the basics. You can buy a used copy online at Amazon and don’t need to pay for a ‘certification’ for basic copyediting skills, which you already have as a writer, journalist, novelist, poet and such, and use daily.

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You can read the screen above for the information layout. I think it’s a nice course to refresh your editing skills. I also believe that paying for the certification will NOT lead to job offers in copyediting. Only degrees in Journalism, Communications, and related fields and experience in writing and editing will get you a job (freelance or not).

After sitting through most of this free, ‘basic’ course, all I can say is “be careful what you wish for… you just might get it.”

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Want to Improve Your Writing? Go Read a Dictionary!

Posted on March 24, 2023 by MestengoBooks

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More Than Just A Book of Words

Reading a dictionary – now there’s a novel idea. And a challenging one, at that. I’d been thinking about what to post next; as I considered topics, something came to me:

A dictionary contains every word in every story you’ve ever read or written or will ever read or write. When was the last time you read through one?

Or have you ever tried?

And then I came across a short but informative article on just this subject. It’s a great little article on why reading a dictionary will greatly improve your writing and I’ll quote often from it here because he made so many wonderful points.

“When I misbehaved as a kid, writing out sections of the dictionary was the way my father punished me. At the time, I wished he’d have chosen any other means of discipline. Throw out my Xbox, no television for a week, make me eat broccoli, anything but that dictionary I’d think. Little did I know how much this book improved my vocabulary.”

Isaiah McCall, Journalist and NYC comedian

I have a clear memory of our thick Webster’s Dictionary sitting alongside our complete set of Encyclopedia Britannica that sat in a small bookcase in the long hallway between the kitchen and living room/bedrooms. Growing up pre-Digital Age, I often referred to that dictionary when writing school papers (in longhand and rewritten often to achieve perfection because the Catholic nuns accepted no less).

“Real self-improvement is doing the activities that most people would rather avoid. It could be waking up a little earlier, exercising a bit longer, or going where few ever go to improve their writing: the dictionary.”

Isaiah McCall

Always Learning

Sure, reading books can help with learning vocabulary and improving language skills but only a dictionary can build your word base (that pesky skill that allows one to speak and write well and, diversely). Dictionaries provide so much more than just words: pronunciation, history, evolution. Even the newest lexicon is included to provide readers and perusers with so much more than JUST a word.

“You can read War and Peace or Lord of the Rings (both excellent books by the way) until your face turns blue. Yet you won’t ever learn the word axinomancy (the placement of an ax, hatchet or saw into the ground or stump of tree).”

Isaiah McCall

What’s interesting is that I learned, in reading Isaiah’s article, that dictionaries have evolved from being prescriptive (telling us how to use the book) to being descriptive (how people use language) – big difference. I clearly remember all the hubbub around the word ain’t and how it really wasn’t a word (though it is and has been for some time). There was a saying in our neighborhood (and probably in many other neighborhoods as well) – “Ain’t ain’t a word. If ain’t ain’t a word…well, I forget the rest of it…too long ago. But you get the point, since ain’t has been included in the dictionary since the 18th century!

“Instead of rushing through the dictionary to find sophisticated or bizarre words, take the book page by page — revel in the experience. Write the words down, understand them, and only after that can you continue to the next page. Unless you have a photographic memory, you‘ll likely forget some, if not most of these words. But this isn’t the point of writing out a dictionary. The point is to gain recognition and a real feel for words you never even knew existed.”

Isaiah McCall

Personally, one of my favorite words (which I learned from perusing said book) is obsequious and I do like to use it in conversation. As a child, I was obsessed with pronouncing and spelling pneumonosilicovolcanoconiosis. I can’t remember how or why I locked on to it. At the time, it was one of the LONGEST words I’d memorized, aside from supercalifragilisticexpialidocious, which every kid in the neighborhood knew (thanks, Mary Poppins!).

I’ll let Isaiah finish making the point for me:

“But as a writer, the dictionary allowed me to lock onto words that struck my fancy. “Videlicet” and “autodidactic” are two words I continue to use in my conversations and more importantly, my writing.

You’re bound to find a few words that will become staples in your writing.

Start with writing out 10 words a day. You can go with an “a through z” approach or flip to random pages. Either way, make sure you get your 10 words in.”

Isaiah McCall

Now go dust off that big old book or bookmark Webster’s online dictionary and get your words ON.

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Organize Your Writing Space to Maximize Output and the Results May Surprise You

Posted on March 11, 2023 by MestengoBooks

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Just a Little Reminder for a Big Effect

Back in 2017, I posted a blog on setting up your writing space for better success. I’m still a firm believer in space arrangement and how it affects your work and home, and a springtime newsletter from a feng shui expert prompted me to remind you all as well.

“A writer’s office should be a haven, a sanctuary. A safe place to explore unknown realms of the heart and mind. A nest, a birthing place. An efficient model of production where computers and printers spit out polished manuscripts.” Leslie Budewitz, Author

The following are the top ten from Carol M. Olmstead, FSIA, Feng Shui Master Practitioner, whose feng shui newsletter I have followed since graduate school. Note what’s in the Number 1 spot – how you position yourself while you’re working, creating that next bestselling novel, that personal masterpiece.

This can make or break your writing process, if you ask me.

1. Sit (or stand) in “command” position. That is, face toward the room entrance door, preferably on a diagonal. If you can’t turn your desk around, hang or place a mirror so you can see what’s going on behind you.

Personally, this is always my go-to choice. Never liked sitting with my back to the door or a window. I want a view of who’s coming in and what’s going on outside (even when a nice window view is a not-so-welcome distraction, it beats staring at a wall). Honestly, I do feel more in control when my desk is in this position. Problem is, some people may not have enough room (read: small studio apartment or shared living space) but there are fixes available to help you write and sell that next great novel.

2. Think like Goldilocks and choose the right size desk. A desk that is too small can make you feel like you are not up to the challenge of your work. A desk that’s too big symbolizes feeling overwhelmed by tasks. An unsubstantial desk will limit your opportunities for growth and promotion.

Absolutely! I had a friend who started a home-based consulting business after leaving her corporate job. Her desk was far too tiny and narrow, I reminded her, to get the business off the ground, because it represented a lack of space (for clients/opportunities) in her life. Needless to say, until she moved out of the cramped space and got a larger desk/work area, her business stagnated, which left her in dire financial straits for a time. Now she’s growing her business and is much happier.

3. Sit in the most comfortable chair you can afford. Many companies embrace hybrid working and offer chairs and other equipment that employees can bring home. It doesn’t hurt to ask and take advantage of available options.

Who on earth wants to sit uncomfortably at all? Especially writers! We spend far too many hours bringing our imaginations to life to sit in a chair that creates discomfort. Check out consignment shops first; I found an adjustable and comfy leather swivel office chair for a whopping $4. You’ll never find unless you look.

4. Keep work out of your bedroom. Try to find another space for your home office, like in the dining room if you rarely eat there, or in an infrequently-used used guest room. If there is no other place for you to work, separate out your workspace using a floor screen, standing plants, or a curtain hung from the ceiling as a divider.

This has been difficult, especially through the Covid-19 lockdown and everyone stayed home. Private space became nonexistent or had to be shared with others. Use your imagination (you’re writers, for crissakes) and make your writing space your own.

5. Adjust the art in your workspace. Choose images that make you feel inspired, motivated, and calm. Get rid of anything you no longer like, and avoid art that’s dark, empty, lonely, or depressing, no matter how valuable or how much you paid.

Choose picture, colors and patterns that inspire. It’s that simple.

6. Add a living plant. The ideal location for a natural plant is within 3 feet of your desk to balance any issues from electromagnetic energy. Silk is acceptable if you can’t grow plants, but avoid dried flowers because they symbolize dead, unmoving energy. Also avoid cacti or other plants with sharp spikes.

I love a just-the-right-size-for-my-desk jade plant. They represent prosperity and success (upper left corner of desk) and I love their thick, moist leaves. There’s a sturdy gentleness about this plant that speaks to me. Cacti belong OUTSIDE; their sharp needles will direct negative energy directly at you and will affect how you feel and how you write.

7. Accent your workspace with color. Choose accent colors to match the bagua areas of your workspace to enhance your career path.

8. Add current photos. Display photos of mentors, family, and friends who support you. It’s okay to display photos of deceased relatives who were mentors, but balance these by also displaying current photos of you and/or your family to show continuing growth.

Dead people on my writing desk? No thanks! Talk about an inspiration killer… That’s what hallways and unused corners are for…

9. Lighten up your home office. Locate your desk as close to a window as possible, and choose full-spectrum or warm-glow bulbs that simulate daylight, rather than cold, blue-white bulbs. Avoid overhead fluorescents.

Eye strain, eyeball and temple headaches are a distraction and can be avoided with proper lighting. I love the full-spectrum bulbs; they’re sunlight in a lamp. No seasonal affective disorder with full-spectrum! And they last about six years so they’re extremely cost-effective, too.

10. Tune in to tune out distractions. Play music or use a white noise device or app in your office to drown out any distractions from inside or outside your home. This is a good time to rethink your playlist and choose more soothing sounds to balance any work-related chaos.

This one’s tough for me since I have the attention span of a squirrel. Thankfully I have several jazz apps on both phone and laptop. Soothing and allows me to focus on my work (like this post – I’m listening to KKJZ out of LA right now…).

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Getting Paid Writing Gigs – Can I Handle the Pressure?

Posted on February 17, 2023 by MestengoBooks

Is it really this easy?

Can I Produce What They Want?

This very question came to me as I perused the media jobsite Mediabistro, just to see what they had to offer. I read job ads and descriptions, including a sidebar on each page as to what a Proofreader does, what’s expected from a Copywriter, etc.:

What does a Proofreader do?

A Proofreader is in charge of making sure work is reviewed before it goes to print. Proofreaders check documents for grammatical errors, along with looking at the body of work stylistically and making sure the margins and spacing is correct. While the job can overlap with an Editorial job, a proofreader mainly ensures that an article is free of grammatical errors. Ultimately, a proofreader works to make sure content is free of typographical, grammatical, spelling, punctuation, syntax, formatting and other such errors.

From Mediabistro.com

The job description of Proofreader fit me (and my inner Grammar Nazi) to a tee but the degrees required make me hesitate, make me question my abilities – can I provide what they need?

Each sidebar noted that a degree in English, Journalism or Communications was necessary. Is that true? Plenty of degrees require writing skills but I do wonder if I would receive consideration even though none of my degrees are in the requisite fields listed.

What are the requirements to become a Proofreader?

Similar to the requirements for most Editorial roles, this person typically has a bachelor’s degree in English, Journalism, or Communications. This person must have a high threshold for tedious work as well because most of their work will be very specific last-minute edits that sometimes they only have the eye to see. Ultimately, this role requires impeccable attention to detail and grammar.

From Mediabistro.com

Sound the Death Knell

And there it is. The anxiety-producing, I-doubt-they’ll-even-consider-me-for-the-position willies. The sheer weight of fear of that level of responsibility crushes me, keeps me from moving in the direction of ever getting a paying writing gig. How does one get past this hurdle? If I’ve been writing articles for newsletters and journals for thirty years, how is it I still think of myself as not talented enough or good enough? I’ve written books, for crissakes. Certainly experience equals or trumps any degree, right?

Just Gimme a Chance!

Maybe all I need is that first gig, that first shot at proving to myself and the contractor that I can do it. I can write. I can proofread. I can meet your deadline. I can write a paragraph or 1000 words on a topic close to your heart.

There are thousands of magazines out there. If I could drum up the courage and send out some queries, I’m sure I’d find a few takers. I get so close – I start writing an article or informational piece. Next step is the query – this is where I get stuck. So many magazines and publications – where to begin? What are their submission guidelines? The impending confusion and overwhelm pulls me back into my shell. And there I sit, a writer unpaid and afraid to reach for something more.

I can’t be alone in this – this desire to prove that I’m good enough to be paid for the work product I know (on some level, anyway) I can create. Being insecure and a writer – they do tend to go together often, don’t they? Amazing that some writers accomplish anything at all.

I’m still working on that…